the things we do for love..

..or for equally fragile relationships..=)

when i was in college, i heard stories of how new relationship are so fragile that it was like being a doctor on call. the doctor here is the men in the relationship and the patient are the females (am not being chauvinistic but the stories just pertain to this analogy). and so they say that even if the guy already has plans with his barkada, his presence in the said activity will greatly depend on the situation with the mrs. (as girlfriends were lovingly called then). one argument or a request to accompany the girl (somewhere, to do something) would of course be the priority of the moment.

i say this for NEW relationships, because after some time, the guy already has the nerve to argue (or bargain) with the mrs. heheh..but actually it shouldn't be that the guy would always be forced to do things for her. and also the girl shouldn't impose on the guy, we mustn't use tantrums to always get our way. all relationships should be balanced, both parties being considerate of the other person's feelings.

this topic reminds me of the wonderful, touching little things done to me by people close to me... and i want them to know that i am really grateful =D

some of the most touching things done to me ....
.....by my bf was when i was passing by the mall and saw a dress on sale..i didn't have enough money on me that day (i dont remember why i couldn't just withdraw some..), so i shyly called him up (he was at home) and asked him to go to the mall (with money of course)...=D and of course he came and i enjoyed modelling the dresses (we bought 2 =D ) for him and he paid up...
.....by a suitor, leaving in the middle of a movie to buy me a bouquet of flowers..then i was able to parade the mall with the flowers (o d ba, feeling long-hair =P)..
.....by a friend, holding my hand to comfort me..
.....by my sister, praying over me when i was sick..
.....by my father, not letting me go out of the house without breakfast..
.....by my mother, telling me (in gradeschool) that we would still be loved even if we don't get the highest score in school..